jealousy....grrrrrrr
I went through frustrating times last year dealing with a total jealous b**ch . With a little support and understanding from a lot of people i dealt with it very maturly--and let A LOT GO. I was hoping this year was going to be different but now someone on another board is totally slamming me--but in this case its making whoever the spineless poster look like an idiot--so it bothers me a only a little. I can't believe people like this have to post this kind of bs...Well, now I feel like I'm going to snap and not take any bs from anyone--Darrin restrained me from posting nasty stuff in response to it but it was on the tips of my fingers to post away ........just wondering if any one else has had to deal with this kind of behaviour and how you dealt with it!! Thank goodness i have an awesome support team
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Oh La,
Hun rise above it don't stoop to their level!!!
Hun your amazing you work hard to get to where you are and no matter what anybody say's they cannot take that away from you
People that lash out in whatever way they can do so due to being enviouse of what you have achieved and how strong you are, Your an amazing person and you don't not to worry about simple little idiots that don't know what they are talking about! I love you and think your an isnpiration and an amazing girl (not that you need me telling you that ) and you have the best support a girl could ever ask for with Darrin
So chin up head held high and take no notice of that silly little whimp
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Em's right LA, you don't have to spend any time OR energy on people that have nothing else to do with their spare time....you have better things to focus on right!!? Keep up the great work girl!
Use that anger in your workouts to push more!!! hahaha! USE IT!! THEY'RE ONLY HELPING YOU IF YOU SEE IT LIKE THIS!
I'm sorry that there are people in this world that feel the need to put wonderful people like you down and I hate that they have upset you because you certainly don't deserve it
Darl they want you to get upset and angry and if you let it get to you too much, then they have accomplished their goal.
You know when people attack other people it's generally out of jealousy and envy. It's easy enough for me to say don't get upset because I'm not the one that has had some harsh things written about them but don't let them get to you blossom, they're just not worth it
You are so much better than the crap that some idiot has written. Mentally tell them to bugger off and then get on with your wonderful life
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Phew...if I have to care or listen to all the gossips about me I would be a nervous wreck and mass murderer on top LA what goes around comes around..I know you feel hurt and angry..but lashing out will bring more anger and pain The older I get I can handle things differently...trust me I can be a spitfire My BF does not call me Volcano for nothing But 99.9% of the time I restrain myself, I breathe through it and eventually calm down I have asked to get a boxing bag so I can get my frustration outta my systems + get awesome workout
My friend..World class bodybuilder went through hell while preparing for the last year World Champs..check her web if you want: www.muscle-xpo.co.nz/
She is such darling and if you feel like it drop her a line or two...she will probably give you a better advise then me...she has been to Hell and back. She is well know in the country so whatever happens goes to press etc...
Keep sweet and try your best to be above who ever has been nasty to you
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LA I definitely think you did the 'right' thing (however hard it might have been) by not posting something nasty in return.... It shows that you have class, and makes whomever this person is look like an idiot (because you' did not stoop to their level). Honestly just focus on all the 'positives' in your life right now, and forget this loser.... they aren't worth ur time nor energy....
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Redirect that anger into another leg workout!!!!!!!!!
This person is SO JEALOUS of you and is so immature, they are being childish and posting crap about you. You have come such a long way and have worked so hard you can't let this incident get to you. You are a great woman who has inspired so many and you have a big heart to be so giving to everyone in you life and to all of us on this board. There is more for you then this immature, childish person who can't deal with your success. How small is this person??
We love you and know you are AWESOME and that YOU ROCK!!!
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Thanks everyone the support here is truly amazing...No, i wouldn't stoop to a level like that poster..its funny if she had a backbone or was truly "outraged" she would have emailed personally...but its just an attention getter and will just bring more traffic to my site.. Last year an idiot got herself caught for posting stuff about me and ruined her own name...lol--What comes around goes around... Over the past few years I've learned to keep my mouth shut on A LOT of occasions and sometimes i just feel like expressing my thoughts if i get attacked..but like the saying goes "always be the bigger person--in my case i like be the "leaner" one"..lol.
Its ironic that this poster would post this on Kaleem's (our webhost and designer) website ...
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Well, hmmmmm, a tad bit jealous, eh? I just hope that if this person is at the Nationals she stays away from you and not try to play mentals games that may impact your performance.
Your rebuttal was very weel done and everyone can clearly see who the mature one is!
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Thanks soo much Ange I can't wait to see you tomorrow and say "thanks for the support" in person!! Many girls will try anything to bring someone else down--i guess i'm an easy target
That was an awesome reply to the 'nasty girl' comments Good for you!! It's great that other people support you as well, that they can see through the other person's jealousy
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LA -- you have been a HUGE inspiration and support system for me -- I'm glad I emailed you with my original brown fat cell burning question!! I can't wait to meet you!!
You ARE an easy target -- gorgeous, beautiful spirit, "Ninja Turtle" abs , awesome shoulders, "HOTTIE" fiance, successful business, sucessful sponsorship and successful figure career. Yep, easy target but a heck of a lot to be thankful for. More then one reason you survived that car accident!!!
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Ange..... 'Ninja Turtle Abs' haha when I read that I started to laugh aloud! hahah thats sooo funny! haha
and LA i read the post on that board....honestly who has that much time on their hands to start something like that!!! Definitely not worth any of your time or energy!
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I agree with ya Elise....only insecure people have to make posts like that..maybe it makes them feel better. I was kinda hoping for a response from that poster but obviously i made my point and she or he will think twice about what they type from now on.
Thanks everyone for all your support!! The season has just begun so I'm sure I'll have more stories before its done..lol
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Hi Elise -- I think it was on the Leangirl boards where someone wrote about LA's "Ninja Turtle abs" -- I remember she got a kick out of it -- just wanted to make her smile and forget about that post!
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Man I'd be jumping up and down if anyone told me I had ninja turtle abs! hahahaha! Those are sweet abs! And I have to agree, they do compare to LA's AMAZING ninja turtle abs!!! This is jealousy right here hun! hahahaha! You're awesome LA!
Re: jealousy....grrrrrrr
jealousy comes from people who don't hold a self worth ....
jealousy comes from people who are scared of the real world...
jealous comes from people who don't have their OWN hopes and dreams and accomplishments...
ever since losing my weight and getting into this industry i've lost ALL friends due to jealous...sad to say it can be lonely but in the end i've met so many fitness minded people and because of that I am better off.
LA- you are a tough girl...i know you'd like to take this chicks neck and ring it but in the end you are the one that WILL come out on top..looking better, feeling better, and doing better in all aspects of life..... any more rude comments like this think to your self " damn i'm so good other girls have the time and energy to worry about my life and how great i've done for myself...".. too bad these people dont take this time and energy to improve their own games....
shake it off..laugh...smile and keep your head high
nasty girls!
Hey LA, your response to the b***h was fantastic, showed pure class as opposed to the original poster!
I have jealousy affect me every single week at work. Whilst I am not in the shape you are, I take pride in my appearance and try my hardest to make the best out of what I have.
Some of the girls at work seem to take my pride and self worth as arrogance, they seem to think that I have feelings of superiority (I wish I had that much confidence in myself!)
I get so much greif, every time I sit down for my can of tuna for lunch its like 'oh, here's gail starving herself again, give it up gail, live a little!'. I've recently put on around 5lbs and I now get 'oohh gosh gail, you're putting weight on, its all on your butt, just shows how your hard work is a waste of time.....' blah, blah, blah.....
I feel like screaming sometimes 'just leave me alone, i don't want your attention, critisism or negativity until you've got your asses down the gym with me and see how hard I train!!!!'.
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well I got a response from the poster that slammed me on northern physique and this time she's making pretty serious accusations---i feel i know 100% who the b**tch is.
. With a little support and understanding from a lot of people i dealt with it very maturly--and let A LOT GO. I was hoping this year was going to be different but now someone on another board is totally slamming me--but in this case its making whoever the spineless poster look like an idiot--so it bothers me a only a little. I can't believe people like this have to post this kind of bs...Well, now I feel like I'm going to snap and not take any bs from anyone--Darrin restrained me from posting nasty stuff in response to it but it was on the tips of my fingers to post away
........just wondering if any one else has had to deal with this kind of behaviour and how you dealt with it!! Thank goodness i have an awesome support team
The older I get I can handle things differently...trust me I can be a spitfire
My BF does not call me Volcano for nothing
But 99.9% of the time I restrain myself, I breathe through it and eventually calm down
This is jealousy right here hun! hahahaha! You're awesome LA!
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