I agree that is is way, way time that females took their rightful place. And this is happening. Maybe not as quickly as some would like, but nonetheless happening.
But I think it is a pendulum thing. It is unreasonable to expect that the pendulum will swing back and stop at 'neutral.' It will swing the other way.
Is swinging the other way to some extent.
As far as I'm concerned, the only criteria are ability and opportunity. Straight up, end of story. (I agree that 'opportunity' is a grey area.)
This may mean that change will happen more slowly, but at least it will be honest and permanent change without manipulation which by its very nature will leave wreckage.
To do less is to be guilty of that which gave rise to the imbalance in the first place.
cheers
PE